Hi Dan, huge fan. I'm a straight male in my late 20s. I've found myself in a situation that I never would have even considered before I started reading your column. I met a girl on Tinder and after arranging our first date, she admitted that she's gay and is in an LTR with a woman. She's a college student in her early 20s and has never slept with a guy before.
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Throughout most of my life, I was single. I was a big nerd and super focused on school work. My closest friends were girls. For a few years between high school and college, I had a guy as a best friend and then a boyfriend. But other than that, my closest friends were a couple of girls. After my boyfriend and I broke up, I went back to having Megan and Jen as my best friends. Within a couple years, my parents posed to me a curious question:.
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Loyal lesbian reader here. I know you usually deal with gay dudes and their problems, but I wonder if you could give me some perspective on this problem I have. Straight Girl and I got to talking, and we hit it off so we agreed to meet for drinks the following night. I have two questions: 1 Should I just back away now before I get hurt again? Does it ever happen that bi-curious guys will go after an out gay man, but then feel conflicted about their feelings and return to the warm, familiar bosom of straightdom?
Yes, she's really bisexual. You wouldn't keep asking a straight woman you were dating if she was "really" straight, right? Yeah, it's just as weird for you to do that to a bisexual woman. And on top of annoying questions, she likely experiences a unique form of identity erasure. As a result, I often feel unseen.