Katy Thorn September 24, There are a lot of presuppositions and myths about anal sex: Men want it more. So on and so forth. But why should this be? As part of a loving relationship, or even as part of a brief and hot encounter , anal sex has a lot to offer. Not to mention, the relative taboo nature of anal is part of its appeal for many participants.
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It can feel like anal sex for women is the final frontier. But still, for some, anal is a big deal. But the fact remains that not only have many women tried it, but many women like anal sex. As Sinclair explains, not only is this narrative false, but it's also problematic in more than one way. For instance: that men have a bigger libido than women, that men coerce women into engaging in certain activities in the bedroom, etc. Such a narrative isn't just disingenuous, but puts limitations on what women are "allowed" to find pleasurable. While there's still that a taboo attached to it, the anal sex conversation is being had more and more.
See: twerking. But are we really getting to the root of our anal admiration? Have some enthusiasm when you let your partner take on your tail-end. It'll also help you loosen up down there if you're relaxed and turned-on.
Looking to add some kink into the bedroom? My ex-girlfriend and I tried it one afternoon just for the hell of it. She'd actually lured me away from the college football game we were at with a promise that we could try anal if we left at halftime, which seemed like an okay deal to me. There wasn't really anything too special about it, to be honest, and she certainly wasn't enjoying it, though that was probably due to lack of proper preparation and lubrication. I had not.